Feeling Exhausted!
Just a matter of few days back when i saw some nasty pictures of a famous Morning show host Shaista Lodhi (Wahidi). It a was moment when i was like OMG what the hell is this, is she with mir shakeel ur rehman, then i shook my head and blinked that no no it's her ex-husband Mr. wahidi.
If she is with her husband then why am feeling nasty , no it's not the matter that she was with her husband i was shocked at that was her personal pictures during her visit to a country. It got happens just after two or three days when shaista spokes about her relation with her husband and why she forced to file for divorce. When I saw that video titled "shaista got emotional when she listen a story of a girl. I was surprised that shaisa and emotional...hmmm seems different why not to check it.
I opened the link and watched the whole video where a girls called in a show hosted by Shaista, when she told that how her parents married her with a guy who was sixteen years elder than her, how she suffered, just about to listen all this shaista was stunned and after few mintus she spokes that ,this is what happens when parent married their daughters with out asking them in the name of betterment of their lives, they even damn care about what she felt after. Then suddely she started crying during the show and asked to putt off the camera. Her life was never been a mystery, she was a full of life dentist, I saw her 1st in a show on PTV she was hosting it with a male host. There she was smiling and laughing out loud.
I still remember when she joined ARY for morning show, she was quite happy with that show. She might not be so popular among the audience but she known for copying Nadia Khan the ex- Geo's morning show host. When she allegedly removed for the show Mir shakeel ru rehman assign shaista for this show out of handsome amount of money. She was also known for her loud accent. She Joined Geo and opened up more, here she has no boundries she can screams, shout and danced. Here she was a free bird to open her wing and flew away. There we get to know about her brother, her family, husband and kids as she severely introducing them during her shows. When I et to know about that Shahir lodhi is her brother I was like ummm.. really...??? Before that no one knows who is Shair lodhi, He was mostly famous for his mimicry style in which he copies Shahruk khan, but badly failed to impress audience.
When I saw an episode of Utho Jago Pakistan where she and Sahir was get-together and a very bad personality for me as I don't like him as much either I don't hate him but because of his negative impact I just want to vanishes him out side the door yes it's waqar zaka, he is just a disgraced person for me. Well come to the point, I saw them in a show together what was the most irritating scene when shair came up to shaista and kissed her on her cheeks and waqar said LO DEKHO APNIGF KO KISS KIA.... I was like awwwwwww...what the hell is going on then suddenly shaista said He is my sweet brother and he can do this. That was the turning pint for me that is this our culture? what they are trying to prove...???? I was so upset by that act and stopped watching the show. After that she called up her husband and kids in the show where we get to know that "Hoor key Bgahal mian Langoor".
That was the time I had started believing that it's not necessary that if a woman is beautiful her husband could be. Well we find him a v nice and calm person during the show but their relationship was not seemingly good. They were sitting together but they were not happy as their kids are. I thought it's not necessary if some one is laughing loudly he/she is happy inside. There might b some problems between them. Well after this all mass shaista again and again alleged for her action in the show and we got to know several of times that her husband is not being happy any more with her and suddenly in December 2012 I came across a news that shaista get divorce out of shakeel ur rehmans love.
I read news about it shocked but accepted the reality and tried to get the real facts.But could not able to find any one. Even often i thought how much a person can b greedy that she never thinks about her kids and want to marry a business man for money and fame. It was the time when it was said that Nadia Khan is returning and join her show back so every body stat talking and blaming shaista for this act that she don't want to leave the show and offers Mir sb to marry her and divorced her husband. That was the 1st image come across our minds. She get divorce but after her divorce she continues the show but the news burst out, when she came to know that people strted talking about her she got aside for her Idat. These was the days when sahir own the show and start hosting it.
After her Idat which was started after one month of her divorce, she joined again but never tried to speak about her family issues. If some one tries she shouted at him/her but after this matter she lost her rating and pr for the show. Often she met some nasty kind of views of people around her because everyone wants know why she got divorce while she has been in sixteen years of relationship. she sealed her lips as she damn care about public and as well as her kids. She has three children one cute daughter and two sons. We even don't know with whom these kids are living right now but really feeling bad for her kids that what they are facing because of their parents. But after two years she open up and told her story why she got divorce from her husband. She said it was sixteen years based relation and it was not an easy decision for her that she has kids. She also said that her parents who currently are not talking to her because for her this act. Her parents wants her to manage this relation but age difference never allows her to pave the way and she get into a good relation. She said parent never ask and think a while that whom they are giving their daughter, they just in search of to lighten their burden, they never thinks that who she will manage this marriage after kids but she did. She added and said it was him who forced me to get divorce.
She get Upsets and faced many things after separation but she never give up because of her children. As she don't want to get effected by this. She also added that she is single now which means she never marries to shakeel ur rehman. After watching this video like other once i thought what a drama queen she is. But after few days i have to changed my views when i saw her personal picture viral on the social network. I am not feeling good to share them here or else where.
It's was done by her ex-husband through a reporter to expose her and make her a bad person but he forgot that by doing this he is actually making her strong that she was with her husband not with her any bf. When I took a step and defend her for not to post their personal picture openly many people turned on me and started blaming her even for this shame full act by her ex-husband who never even think a while about his kids.This point make me realized that shaista took a right step. Mr. wahidi should be ashamed of what he did, what ever the reason behind it but he took the wrong decision to over whammed her but she proven to be an innocent not guilty and she is on the right way to so say she didn't do anything wrong and those who blame her for this for their kind information she was with her husband the most trust-able person in a woman's life and she never took that nasty pictures it was also him. A woman is like to be abide by her husband she has to do what ever he says. It's taught by mothers to each and every girl in their early ages then how a person could say that shaista is wrong????? I think they should rethink about their thinking other wise every girl would stop marry as they can do anything after marriage.
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